Pride Vs Ego

Okay, can you tell me the differences between pride and ego? Can someone explain me this?  What do you get by doing this? Happy? Satisfaction? Well, it doesn't make you win anyway. Here we go, let me tell you a story about 2 couples had a fight/quarrel on a very very veryyyy small matter actually. 

Well, there is a man, and a woman. Their relationship is rather complicated. They got engaged, I think on the last year. They started with friends, and become secret admirer. Suddenly they lost contact for 3 years because of "someting". Yeayh I couldn't recall it, not a good thing to memorize though. That was in the past. And it's not the main thing i really wanted to talk about. 

Ok, back on the track. It was happening right after the girl's dad birthday celebration. 3 days later, the boy called the girl. The boy is not someone who really spend his time for the girl. The girl understands because the boy is too busy with his job & also part time job. He always come home late at 10 pm onwards. Sometimes, the boy didn't even message the girl, and the girl has to accept that. 

The problem is came from her boy's friend. Because the boy went for Karoke with his friends and his friend's girlfriends. Yes! Without her. He invited her, but she couldn't since it was 5 pm already and she has to be in the home before 7pm. Yes.

The girl bought up this matter. Why the boy went there without her although she is the one who gave the permission in the first place. The girl doesn't want to control his life, at the same time she wanted he UNDERSTANDS HER. If he really understands her, he WON'T GO, even though the girl doesn't stand in a way. No need to ask,when you supposedly know what the answer.

So, the girl keep saying these things to the boy at the night when the boy calling her. Ahh, forgot to mention that his friend who went together to Karoke is also there. Guess he wanted to sleep at the boy's house. The boy mistook the girl about being jealous with his friend's girlfriend, so he did say this,

"WEEHH, AWEK AKU JELES DENGAN AWEK KO WEHH" meaning, "MY GIRLFRIEND IS JEALOUS WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND" YEsss right in front of her (although it's not directly on the face, but still, no girls ever wanted to be treated this way)

The girl became so mad and unconsciously said the word "EE bodoh lahh", and hung up the phone. The boy thought that she said the word to him and here is the drama again. She received a msg from him, saying that thank you for swearing bad words. (Whaaaat?)  You know what, he's totally ignore her from the day they fought up until now. it's 2 weeks already i think.

The girl had apologized for her wrong doing, but the boy didn't do the same thing. Is he just want to protect his EGO? or PRIDE? The girl is clueless and don't know what to do. She is still mad, but she still has to apologize.  Pity isn't it? And I have no idea how long this is going to happen. Maybe till the girl doesn't wake up on tomorrow and by the time it was too late for him. The girl is not jealous, she is mad because the boy has this nasty habit, "JANJI DENGAN RAMAI ORG", and never properly explain the situation. If he really want to go for Karoke, why doesn't ask her earlier? Why wait until 5pm? That's totally absurd!

To the boy, APPRECIATE HER.  YOU HAD IGNORED HER BEFORE AND SHE GOT AWAY FROM YOUR LIFE. DON'T MAKE HER DO IT AGAIN. THERE IS NO THIRD CHANCE IN A LIFE!

To be continued...